"I hate Mondays." "I hate this cold weather." "People are so stupid." "My house is such a disaster." "My boss is a jerk." "Never gonna happen." "My children fight constantly."
In grade school my friend Micky did not like Sloppy Joe sandwiches. I could count on dramatic whining from her every Friday. Decades later that's the only solid memory of her that remains. I no longer remember her face, but I remember her words, "I absolutely hate Sloppy Joes. I hate them." She liked every ingredient in that sandwich. She simply chose to be negative.
God is the giver of every good and perfect gift. He offers a clear vision for His people. He has a plan for our welfare and not our calamity, plans to give us a future and a hope.
Examine your words. You're building a dream and what you speak over your life, your home, your boss, your children, will become reality. Choosing to be negative will make the burdens heavier. Praise will lighten your load.
Living an excellent life requires speaking intentionally. Let your speech be seasoned with salt and full of grace. We set the tone of our day by our words. We write our lifesong by our words, our thoughts, our choices.
What if every irritant, every hardship, every change were considered a gift? What if we faced each day with courage, diligence and faith? Nothing is wasted if it contributes to the person you are becoming.